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On this week’s Free Topic/Open Mic Wednesday.
Evidence:
https://www.instagram.com/robcolfer/
You can tell the guy doesn’t have any confidence, hence why he’s allowing himself to be used by this tatted up, fake eyelashes wearing harriet in the hopes that one day she’ll recognise his potential and “give him a chance”.
Well obviously through this video clip, she’s made it clear that they’re NOT a couple, he’s not her type, she only sees him as a friend and he’ll never have a chance with her.
He looks incredibly hurt discovering this new information, however in his own best interests, he simply needs to move on without further delay.
In 2025 there is too much information at men’s disposal for them to be tolerating or even thinking about being in a female’s friend-zone. The friend-zone as a man is an UNACCEPTABLE position to be in.
If you like any woman, you MUST establish from the very beginning if there is a mutual attraction and an opportunity for a relationship to be formulated.
If the woman says that she only sees you as a friend, you need to inform her immediately but politely that friendship is NOT what you’re looking for and swiftly move on in search of another potential candidate.
Men who orbit around women believing they can change their minds are doing themselves an incredible disservice. NEVER allow these harridans to use you for help, attention and validation if they’re not willing to reciprocate in like manner.
Another Open Mic Wednesday is here, you’ve got the floor fellas, roll that dice. #SYSBM™
https://slayingevil.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/@thejourneypodcast__.mp4
The Deprogramming And Decontamination Process Continues
Stay Individual(In Your Mind)
Most High Bless
Verbs 2015.
The friend zone is the worst place to be as a Man in 2025. Like I said before Verbs the last time I was in the friend zone when I was 30 years old back in July 2012 and I haven’t been in the friend zone since because I fully know my self worth as a man at 42 going on 43. I also refuse to have female friends because its a waste of time. The only female that I will have in my personal life is my future girlfriend or a female sex buddy who is sexually attracted to me.
Quincy Fitzpatrick,
Back in my earlier younger years I saw the friend zone a few times, I never knew any better, I didn’t have any strong masculine men around me to seek advice from plus in my younger years the internet had just been given to the public, it was still fresh back then.
There weren’t any Red Pill spaces so I literally had to freestyle and figure things out myself. Today however is a totally different story, I’m red pilled up to the hilt and there is no way that I’ll ever be visiting the friend zone again, NEVER.
Gentlemen,
Remember, these are the same black females who are forever calling you broke, yet here they are once again engaging in grand financial fraud. $50K cheque and she thought the bank wouldn’t double, triple and quadruple confirm and verify to ensure said cheque was legitimate, really heifer?
Of course in typical black female fashion she’s wearing the fake nails and ugly cumbrella eyelashes, she can’t listen and keep her mouth shut whenever somebody else is talking, she refuses to heed to instructions given and ultimately get violent. And they wonder why increasing number of black men want nothing to do with them, smh:
You won’t believe the number of videos that’s out there of Keishas committing crimes; I have a whole playlist of videos that I haven’t even watched yet where they get arrested and crash out!
Blue Collar Trevor,
These types of videos are constantly coming up as recommended in my YouTube feed. Here is another one I ran across of a fat black female who was asked to leave an Airbnb because she was acting unruly. Of course eventually she ended up getting arrested because she wouldn’t do what she was told in typical black female fashion:
I did that, hung around a Greek woman who had a boyfriend back home but was very friendly with me. She said she saw me as a friend, despite holding hands etc. I said I wasn’t interested and ended the friendship.
Both men in the clip look awkward and if I was the guy getting ditched, I’d find whatever self respect was still in me, grieve being led and deceived and move on. It’s sad, man but I’ve been there.
Michel,
You did what a man would do. There is nothing wrong with being a woman’s friend. But if you want more and she doesn’t, don’t be an orbiter. And don’t be the type of friend who is available for janitorial work, free meals, attack dog duties, and gassing up her ego. All of which you said no to.
The guy in the video looked like he would take a bullet for her, while getting absolutely nothing in return. Even simps get treated better.
Michel,
These women want a man they can treat “like” their boyfriend but without any intimacy, recipracation or reward involved for any services rendered. The most dignified thing to do as you said is to simply walk away and not be hoodwinked by the mixed messages these women deliberately put out having you believe that there’s a possibility something more than friendship might materialise in the future.
There’s no need to be friendzoned in 2025 as women are throwing themselves left and right at any dude who’ll step up and ask for box in a masculine way.
SYSBM: I have been through that friendzone shit!
White sugar honey: And now you are with me.
The lady who doesn’t know the capital of England which is now a shit hole, she says that she is smart. A smart person will know what is the capital of England and that is London. a place that I’m from and it’s North West London, blud!
The guy who wanted more then be her friend, she doesn’t want that at all. She wants him as a friend and that’s it. That’s all she wanted. Him being her friend. I like to know if he still hang around with her after that.
Well, he’s found out now that she wants him as a friend. So, he might as well move on and find someone else he can have a relationship with. Or he can play the field with online dating which I’m not a big fan off or speed dating.
And the guy with the mic, he did feel it for him as the guy with the blue shirt wanted more then friendship with her. But now, he found out and he can more on and if he still wanna be friends to her, then cool. I have no issues with that. Well, I don’t know.
I think the only time she will expect him is when she got ran thru or end up as a single parent. and I don’t think that he will take her after she rejected him.
Yeah, men go through the friendzone thing. I have been played before numerous times and I didn’t stay with them as they were wasting my time. And now, they see me as a changed man and it’s not good for them.
Hey, keep your white sugar honey safe at all times as these ghetto ratchet scraggle daggles are coming after non-black women.
Laters
MC,
#NOFRIENDZONEEVERAGAIN
#SYSBMFORLIFE
Happy Open Mic Wednesday! It’s always so painful to see a female friend zone a guy in real time; notice how his body language changed when she said he wasn’t his type. That’s like getting slapped in the face! Have you ever noticed how bubbly and and proud the girl seems to be whenever she puts a guy in the friend zone? She has absolutely no regard for how the guy feels, which should tell you how little she thinks of the guy; it also shows she’s not afraid of losing him. Don’t ever be that guy!
Verbs2015,
I think you are being too kind to the lame on the video. Orbiters have no intention of changing 99.9999 percent of the time.
Orbiters know what they are, they know they have no self respect. To the orbiter, his thirst is the most important thing in the world. The orbiter will do anything foul to anyone, including himself, for just the chance to be in the stable of the object of his thirst.
The orbiters I have known have been that way all their life. And they see it as perfectly normal male behavior. One orbiter told me that all men do this. He said the only difference is some men orbit better looking women than others.
Most orbiters are so psychologically depraved and damaged that they will not change and have no intention of trying.
Many orbiters are holding out with the hope that they might catch the object of their desire in a weak moment, like revenge sex after her alpha breaks her heart. They seem to get off on the frustration and humiliation.
AmericanBlkMan,
Like I said to commenter Quincy Fitzpatrick, I could understand such a position say 30 years ago when the internet was fresh out of the can to the public, however in 2025 there is absolutely no excuse to be taking up and accepting residence in the friend zone.
On the flip side, let’s not pretend that there aren’t women out there who will give an orbiter the cheeks to clap after they’ve been let down by Alpha Chad, Brad and Tyrone.
Granted, there may not be many of those types of women out there, albeit I’ve heard plenty of stories of women breaking up with men and shortly afterwards getting smashed by their so called “long time friend”.
Strokes on the rise in young people:
https://youtu.be/0OJrBQ0-P68?si=T8swfR3g5T7hp_Ug
So, when will we finally admit that these health crises we’re currently facing are the results of taking the vaccine?
BCT,
The dinosaur lamestream media will continue to keep silent and for as long as they can use the old adage, there’s nothing to see here, move along please. Additionally, they’ll continue publishing ridiculous headlines such as getting out of bed incorrectly can lead to heart attacks or putting on your clothes in a hurry can lead to a stroke.
Folks are going to have to start using their own brains at some point, however the many will continue walking into the fire. I’m still seeing some knuckleheads wearing masks when I’m out and about, they really don’t want to let go of the biggest fraud and scam in history, smh.
I just wanna say, HUGE respect to Ibrahim Traore of Burkina Faso. This is what you call a MAN and a real leader and a great example to black men. He’s only 37 years old, so he’s a young guy and has many years ahead of him to make an even bigger difference. We haven’t had someone like him come along in a while.
The amusing thing is, everybody can see the western media pathetically spinning ducktales by trying to demonise and slander him as if we’ve never seen this beyond tired tactic before. They forget that as many lies as they want to spew against the brother, the people in his country say they love him and that he’s doing good deeds for the country. Plus in this day and age of social media, you simply can’t lie on somebody as easily as you did decades ago and expect people to just take your word for it anymore. The entire African continent is behind him. It’s not even just African/Black people giving him props either.
As black men worldwide, we need to work on establishing power in all areas of life. Talking about superficial stuff and being ‘nice’ to others just doesn’t cut it anymore. The only thing people respect is POWER. We’re seeing white men in high positions (you know who I’m referring to) flexing and just doing whatever the fuck they want even if it’s illegal and immoral as hell because they can. I look forward to when we do the same. I’m not saying you gotta be that way straight out the gate, but if it comes to it we should do whatever it takes to not only survive but thrive. Every living thing in nature is competitive and strives to get to the top of the food chain and doesn’t play nice at the expense of itself.
The good thing about Ibrahim is that all it takes is for one leader to make a difference, then the rest will follow. I’m hearing people in other African countries are starting to put the heat on their own leaders to fix up and follow his example. To my understanding, Burkina Faso is a patriarchal society. Good. Only men should be leading. All this queen mother earth bollocks and power sharing with women won’t do. Neither should we ever let other men get a leg up on us and dictate anything. I want US to win and be in charge. It’s well overdue. For those of us who are SYSBM, black men being in control will work in our favour.
Of course, the entire continent isn’t gonna rule the world in our lifetime, but it’s good to finally see a non corrupt, strong African leader setting an example and we should all back him any way we can.
SYSBM Forever,
I’ve also been watching Ibrahim Traore and I’m extremely impressed with the man. I’m not really surprised that the lamestream press are trying to demonise him, this is the typical lefty, socialist manoeuvre that’s executed by the West against anybody especially in third world countries who actually stands up for and serves the people(which is what an actual leader is supposed to do anyway).
Ibrahim Traore is very intelligent, he speaks well and he knows exactly what direction he’s taking his country in. Black folks need to follow Traore’s example and start standing on their own feet. The man is clearly showing it can be done.
The problem with Africa is it has too many ultra selfish leaders who are corrupt and would much prefer to lay in bed with the West just so that they can continue stashing money away in their slush funds as well as have access to that high rise penthouse suite apartment in Miami.
The best thing about Ibrahim Traore as you pointed out is he’s young and has many years ahead of him. Africans need to stand up to the corrupt powers of the West instead of cowering and placating to the very folks who hate their guts.
https://youtu.be/jOszJuGXyUc?si=c1WirIQqvbe4bXiJ
This woman was a high school teacher, and her revelations aren’t too surprising to me; these young people today don’t stand a chance if they can’t even read, let alone think long enough to write in complete sentences. I also think A.I. and technology needs to be banned, or at least heavily regulated; this former teacher sounds like she cares about her students and their future, and it’s not too often you hear from teachers like her that actually care.
Emotional maggles argued over burnt biscuits, and one ended up getting shot:
https://www.mensjournal.com/news/shooting-breaks-out-at-popeyes-over-biscuits-argument
Mention biscuits to a Brit and the story gets funnier. Arguing over who gets the last McVities milk chocolate, smh…