Meet K Melanie, a black woman who runs a YouTube channel called It’s Kells. A brother in a Google Plus group I am a member of posted one of her videos in which she talked about her displeasure concerning cheap men. Here is the video:
As far as I am concerned this is yet more evidence that adds credence to the fact that black women as a collective view black men as commodities, assets and stock ie slaves. Let’s be honest here, this woman isn’t referring to white men and other non black men, as we already know black women will repay non black men in other ways, they will go above and beyond the call of duty for non black men especially when their white lord, saviour, master and father is brought into the equation.
Let’s deal with some of the points she raised in the video. It’s very safe to assume that her “tight” male friend is black. She talked about this male friend of hers being very stingy with his money, yet we know for a fact that black women are the biggest misers on the planet bar none. An important question that needs to be raised at this point is why is this woman so concerned about a grown man’s money and how he chooses to spend it ? Are you seeing this black men, how black women believe that they have dominion over your cash and how you use it?
You’ll also notice that she had no problems talking out of both sides of her mouth. One the one hand she stated how she was used to going dutch and paying her own way yet here she is raising concerns about her male friend being hesitant to distribute his cash in her direction. Does anybody else see a problem here? In reality her real problem with this particular male friend is the fact that he is not conforming to the “liberal spending programme” her other male friends have taken onboard when it comes to paying for her.
Did she ever think for a moment that one possible reason why this male friend is “tight” with his wallet is because he knows that black women are experts when it comes down to reckless and wasteful spending? Do you notice how black woman as a group are allowed to practice ultra miser protocols when their money is in question, however when it comes down to black men we are not permitted to do the same and if we do we are immediately labelled as being “tight” and “stingy”? Hypocrisy at it’s finest.
She further talked about her refusal to give this particular male friend the contact details of her “bomb ass girlfriend” because of his refusal to pay her way. Question, if your girlfriend is so “bomb ass” ie a good catch then why is she still single just like your black side? Chances are her “bomb ass girlfriend”(who I strongly suspect is also black) is running the same money games as her.
She also went on to encourage men(we really know that she is talking to black men in particular) to treat their females friends kindly, with chivalry and with respect. Firstly let us deal with the chivalry aspect, what killed chivalry, let’s all say it together, FEMINISM. You cannot have it both ways, you claim to be independent and have no need for a man’s service on the one hand yet on the other you wish for men to spend their money on you liberally.
Chivalry was a reward that came as a result of women’s continuous obedience aswell as them exercising their femininity to the fullest degree, most women especially those in the west in 2016 seriously lack both of these attributes, they have instead chosen to wallow in disobedience and take onboard masculine characteristics. Black women as a whole especially are guilty as charged in relation to these two indictments. It is for these primary reasons and many more that chivalry for the most part has been shut down. Chivalry and feminism cannot exist in the same space at the same time.
Let us now deal with treating friends kindly and showing them respect. This is why I will continue to make the statement that most black women stay stuck on stupid and will remain that way until they hit the grave. Treating your friends kindly and with respect has nothing to do with how and if you choose to spend money on them, true friendships are based upon honesty, responsibility, accountability, integrity, trust, respecting the other person’s individuality, supporting them in their times of need etc, none of these mentioned attributes have anything to do with money.
Black women have money on the brain 24 hours a day, money revolves around everything in their lives even with their friendships, this is why most black women stay taking huge L’s on the daily. The truth of the matter is this modern-day black woman doesn’t have a clue about womanhood, she is so deeply immersed in social status aswell as economic and academic concerns that she has completely forgotten the fundamental basics of being a woman.
A note to women but especially to black women, as a man it is not my job to pay your way, a man is not obligated to pay for your drinks and meals. If a man chooses to do so fine, if he chooses to go dutch you should respect his choice and pay for your own food and drink without griping and kicking up a fuss. Going dutch in my opinion is the best way to go for both parties when going out on dates, that way the man doesn’t feel like he is simply being used for free meals and drinks and in turn the women won’t feel obligated to pay the man back in “some other way”. I wrote about this very issue in my book Negro Wars under the chapter dealing with feminism.
How a woman conducts herself on a date can often be a valuable indicator of what she would do in a relationship. Women who gripe and moan about paying for their own drinks and meals on dates will typically display similar restrictive and static behaviour when dealing with issues in a relationship. If she is not willing to put her hand in her pocket in order to get to know you at the beginning, there is a good chance that she will not even meet you halfway if you get involved in a relationship with her.
Women who wish for men to pay for everything on dates automatically snitch on themselves, those types should immediately be marked off as defective goods, be abandoned by the wayside and never be brought into your mind again. Times have changed from what they were in the past, women such as the one above need to get with the programme or forever be left behind. Finally, from being called “broke ass niggas” to being told to be more liberal with our spending, you simply cannot make this crazy script up, lol.
The Deprogramming And Decontamination Process Continues
Most High Bless