In the 1960s many revolutions began to take place predominantly in western society. The chief of these was the sexual revolution. A branch of this revolution was the Women’s Liberation Movement which was founded and sponsored by the Rockefeller Foundation. This movement originally was a movement of and for European women. The “claim” was that the man was oppressing the woman in the home and that women needed to liberate themselves from the clutches of their male “slave masters”. In the 1970s-80s however, you black women of the UK decided that you were going to join your female European sisters in the conquest for so called “liberation”. So you began to depart on your journey leaving your black brothers holding the bag, destitute and solo. Since then, it has gone from The Spice Girls and their “girl power” propaganda to Destiny’s Child and their “independent woman” mantra that alot of you UK black women swear by to TLC and the “No Scrubs” movement and not to mention the Destiny’s Child “Get On The Bus” short era. However, over time a plethora of you have clocked on to the fact that the promises of the road trip of independence were laced with lies, that the grass was not greener on the other side of the fence and that your little trip of independence has actually left you worse off than when you started. The height of your flight of fancy was between 1999-2005.
(Now recently I have just heard another anthem from the scarlet witch known as Beyonce talking about girls running the world. Girls running what? Has this woman forgotten that she is being managed by men? Girls running the world, since when? But again, it doesn’t matter to some of you black women who will simply attach this anthem to the long line of others that you have been parroting while your lives have been going nowhere fast. You women should actually look at the lyrics that you’re repeating one day and acknowledge the garbage that you can be manipulated to sing).
The Return –
So, many of you have acknowledged that the “independent woman, I can do it all by myself, I don’t need a man, let me chase this career and money instead etc” movement has been a complete lie, a scam and a waste of time. However, after all of this, many of you black women still cannot be honest and admit that you seriously messed up and that you were taken for a ride. Yes, rather than returning, being honest and repenting with a sincere heart for your wrong doings and asking for our forgiveness, many of your are attempting to return but with the same arrogant spirit you had when you left. Not only that but many of you are trying to return with an unrepentant heart, a wrong and strong attitude and you act as if we black men should somehow be grateful for your return, welcome you back with open arms and not hold you accountable for your abandonment and treachery.
I also notice that many of you are attempting to “seduce” your way back into our good books by wearing outlandish skimpy clothing and whoring yourselves out in an attempt to soothe the wounds of your skull duggery via sex.
Those of you who have returned may have noticed that some changes have taken place:
1. Black men have simply moved on and not bothered to wait for you as it was uncertain as to when you were going to return, if at all you were going to return.
2. Black men have realised that they have other options and that they no longer have to participate in the stupid games and the folly many of you black women juggle.
3. Black men are now more than ever dating women from other nationalities and finding the love and respect that they were looking for from their own camp, but yet only found disrespect and hatred.
4. Black men have finally realised that they do not have to tolerate the high maintenance, attitude, hatred, bitterness and grief many of you black women bring to the table.
The Flip Side Parallel –
There is also another side to this story. While we had many black women walking this false road of independence, we also had a number of black women who decided that at the same time, that it would be fun and exciting to date thugs/on road bredders. Yes, many of you UK black women believed that the bum on the corner who was either selling drugs, getting into fights, licking shots(literally) or all 3, would be your ideal match and that somehow this type of relationship would be sustainable for the long term. So you drop you knickers readily for the thugged out wannabe gangster lads and gave the “talk to the hand” sign aswell as disrespect to the decent good men who were educated and preferred to avoid the long arm of the law and instead focus on laying the foundation for their future. The thug/on road brother abused you in all ways, disrespected you, got some of you pregnant, yet you still returned to the dung hill time and time again as you seemed to love the danger and excitement of a fast lane relationship. I do not have a problem with that, that was your choice.
However, years down the road, now that many of you have realised the error of your ways, you are now attempting to step to the same good men whom you disrespected and wouldn’t give the time of day to, back in the day. This quite frankly is an insult and these same “goody two shoes” men whom you dissed in times past have the right to respectfully decline your offers. The reality of the truth is many of you who now have children and are just looking for a man to support you and your offspring and a father figure/male role model, and do not think for a second that many of us black men cannot see that this is your objective from the off. Do not become bitter and ignorant if and when you are rejected because of all the excess baggage you now have, remember, this is your baggage not mine, I am under no obligation to take up your burden.
The Problem –
The problem is that many of you UK black women have never stepped up and taken responsibility for YOUR actions as a whole/collective. Everytime your feet have been held to the flames of accountability, you have always given the same return answer, “but you men”. But you men what? When you decided to all put weaves in your head top, that was YOUR DOING, that had nothing to do with us black men, that was your insecurity complex that had been goaded by the European man to make you believe that the European look was the better image and that your own hair was no good as it was.
You were suckered in by this propaganda, do not blame us for this. Be honest with yourselves for a change. The same charge goes for the stick on nails, the shaved heads, the fake eyelashes, the funky colours in your hair, the tattoos, the breast and buttock implants and the many random piercings you black women seem to be running to in your droves.
Remember, your European cousins have been doing this sort of thing for the longest while and once upon a time you shunned all of the above. So what changed? You want to be accepted so badly by the European man, that is what has changed. Because he has given you an illusion of power and acceptance, you feel as if this is your home ticket to run the mile and bend over backwards for him in exchange for his temporary dainty treats which are laced with poison. That is entirely your decision but just remember, when the proverbial hits the fan, the brothers who warned you may not be around to save you, nuff said.
The Current Situation –
So the current situation is this, we have women returning from the “road of independence” and we have women returning from the fast lane, date a thug/road brother path, and I must say that you black women in the UK are not pleased that we black men didn’t wait for you to return. However, before you thrown your toys out of the pram, let me ask you a question. Were we obligated to wait for you, and if so why? However, this hasn’t stopped you black women. Still rolling along wrong and strong, many of you decided that you were going to “teach us black men a lesson” for not waiting. So in your first declaration of revenge, many of you decided to cross over the fence and date your European cousins and men of other nationalities in an attempt to spite your fellow black brother, however you quickly saw that this was not working as many of us had been doing this anyway for a while during your “mission away”. It also didn’t help your cause that men on the whole from other nationalities just saw and still see you black women as sex tools and nothing more. As fast as you were dating men from other nationalities was as fast as they were kicking you to the curb once they had gotten their “piece of the action”.
Your next port of call was to run to the European mainstream media and complain that there were no good men around, however this stunt hasn’t really produced the desired effect for you either. Anything will do for you accept the obvious remedy of a sincere apology to us. Now Iphones and blackberrys have become your best friends all of a sudden. You black women in the UK make me laugh, it is like you have turned into bitter children playing with your toys. Your blackberry and your Iphones are so important, they especially come in handy when you see a brother getting on the train or bus and you embark on your mission for the rest of the journey not to look in his direction. Like clockwork and predictability that blackberry/iphone comes out of the bag or pocket, the ear phones go in and you begin to behave like a 5 years old who has just been handed a Nintendo DS.
The Solution –
Only when you black women are ready to be honest and admit your mistakes and wrong doings can we come together and begin to repair the breach between us. However for the moment it seems that you are more content to play with your electronic gadgets. When you are ready to stand in resposibility for YOUR ACTIONS AND YOUR WRONG DOINGS, then we can begin to move forward. When you are ready to stop playing your hard to get antics aswell as the rest of the foolish games you play, then we can make a new. When you are ready to put down the stang attitudes, the gold digging, the material evaluation, social and financial status politics, then we can walk together in unity. You have alot to answer for black women of the United Kingdom. Sadly, I believe that most of you will never come clean, be honest and turn over a new leaf, you will simply roll wrong and strong into your graves. Pride comes before destruction, remember that.
I as a black man have taken responsibility for my actions and have cut off those negative influences and sterotypes that affect black men. I have repented for my past mistakes and not mine only, but also for my fellow brothers and my forefathers before me as this cycle of negativity must be broken and somebody has to take responsibility. I have not blamed you women for the mistakes us men have made, I have acknowledged that we have messed up and in our areas of error, we as men have to change. As far as I am concerned with my bloodline, the foolishness and the silly antics that are associated with the so called Negro male stop with me. My future children will have nothing to do with my mistakes of the past.
Stop giving your men the cold shoulder, stop behaving arrogantly, start being warming and more welcoming to your men, stop taking liberties out of your men, stop taking your men for granted, start treating your men with respect instead of always trying to challenge them like you are involved in some sort of competition or running your mouth and trying to square up to your men and you wonder why some men will hand you down a whooping. Can you put down that iphone or blackberry for 5 minutes? Can you listen for once instead of motor mouthing off as per usual? Stop and deal with this subconscience hatred you have for your fellow brothers. You women with children, stop treating your sons with contempt because of that idiot of a baby father and teaching your daughters to hate men because of YOUR PAST ISSUES FROM YOUR IGNORANT CHOICES. Talking about how you are independent women, yet many of you are claiming benefits from the government and even living up in government properties. Others of you talk about independence but yet you will quickly run to the European man and his system without hesitation when you are in trouble and destitute. Where is the so called independence huh? Arrogant hypocrites, you are simply independent from your black men, not from men in total. By the way, that money you hold in your purse that you believe is giving you your independence is MAN MADE. So is that government that some of you are sponging off. Did you forget that the house or flat you live in was built by men, hmm? What about the very infrastructure that you live in, have you forgotten? Do you want me to continue? I’ll stop there for the sake of further embarrassment upon you.
However, as many of you who are trying to make some sort of wobbly, indirect return, there are those of you who hold so much pride that you have decided long ago to stick to your “independent” chosen path, even though you have seen that it has profited you little to nothing. But it doesn’t just stop there, not only do you carry a permanent chip on your shoulder but you also try and feed your poison to the women who have returned and even attempt your voodoo enchantments on women who have never left the fold and who are in successful relationships, some even married. As far as I am concerned, good riddens to you as you are a cancer to the rest of your kind. Remember, you made the wrong choices when you were young, you cannot blame anybody else but yourself but it is always easier for you to blame men isn’t it? You decided to remain in that unfruitful relationship, you decided to take the abuse your man was giving you, you decided to get pregnant by a pratt for a father, you were the one who decided that you wanted to have fun and “whore” yourself out. These are YOUR MISTAKES of the past, they do not belong to anybody else but yourself and if you cannot knuckle up and face this then to be honest, you are simply showing not only your fellow sisters around you but your brothers also that you have no character and nobody should really give you the time of day. Talking about “I’m an Independent Woman” as if it is something to be proud of, you should hold you head in shame when you make that sort of declaration. However, the perception managers can even make cow’s dung seem trendy over time with the right manipulation techniques and propaganda. A few catchy songs about “independence” and you were suckered in like a goat. Doesn’t take much to tickle your emotions, does it eh black woman? You also willingly contaminate yourself on a daily basis watching rubbish on television, especially soaps and dramas which promote men hating, adultery, harlotry, lesbianism, homosexuality, jealousy, envy, lust, greed, pride, bitterness etc, and you wonder why you act the way you do, why your mind is in such a messed up state and why your life is at such a stand still. Your new husband black women has become the state. Then some of you take it to the next level and play into this so called celebrity status because you watch your favourite stars on the box, copy them, and now for some reason you believe that you are like them and they are your friends. THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS, YOU DON’T KNOW THEM, THEY DO NOT KNOW YOU, WAKE UP!
I am actually surprised at how you black women on the whole have become cowards who are stunned and stumped into silence when presented with the very thing that you are after. When black men were chasing you down, participating in your games and waiting on you hand and foot, you played like the regal arrogant wretch and stuck your noses up to us in a typical show of pride and pomp. However, now that you have seen that a new breed of black man is arising who no longer tolerates your nonsense, you are in seriously desperate times. You have now lost the ability to approach men and talk to men because you have been so used to men approaching you. You don’t even have to courage to ask a man for his phone number and you have no clue as to how to start a conversation with the same black men who chased you down the streets and broke their necks just to even share a short conversation with you. Oh, how the mighty black woman has fallen, fallen, fallen.
As for you black women who realised that you have been tricked by the European propaganda and have returned to your men with a sincere repentant heart, I take my hat off to you 1000 fold. You are all more precious than fine gold. This is much harder to do and it takes alot more courage to fess up to and admit your mistakes than continuing on the independent road of destruction. My message to you is this, as much as you have decided to decontaminate yourself from the lies and filth of the western culture and ideologies, find other sisters who share the similar desire to be set free and pull them out of the mire also. You women are the key to reversing this situation on your side. In doing this understand though that most of your fellow sisters are contaminated and actually enjoy the contamination of a western society and culture, so do not expect to convert your sisters in droves and do not cast your pearls before swine either. Ask the Most High for discernment in finding those like minded sisters aswell as the wisdom to recognise and walk away from the dead.
The sad factor here is that there is only one condition under which black people as a whole will come together……..PERSECUTION. You deluded black women who believe that somehow by magic you have been accepted by the European man and his system, you will come running back in high numbers when times really begin to get rough. The same also goes for you black men who are so desperate to be accepted by the white man and”fit in” to his fake reality, you too will also hop and skip back when times get tough. Remember where you heard it first.
UK black women, do not read this message wrongly, l love you to bits but I hate what you have become and I hope and pray that there are at least some of you out there who can begin to put down the reprobate foolishness, the dumb acts of harlotry, the wrong and strong attitudes and the arrogant personas so that we both can come to the table of reconciliation.
The Deprogramming And Decontamination Process Continues
Blessings In The Most High